Watching porn – men and women alike do it. As long as it isn’t “shark porn”, to give a shout out to Friends fans, it’s fine. Now, let’s talk about watching porn when in a relationship. Here’s the deal: It’s okay and it’s been proven that watching other people get down to business as a couple is actually quite helpful. Allow us to present you 5 of the reasons why watching porn together can be beneficial for your relationship.
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It enhances your sex drive
Movies – for reasons best known to themselves – are a major turn on. If you’ve been in a relationship for more than 1 year, you can count the times when you saw a movie through on your fingers. By magic, you end up doing it halfway through the motion picture. Watch porn and you’ll be going at it in 10 minutes tops. This is great, particularly when you don’t seem to be as sexually active as you were before.
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It decreases the chances to be cheated on
Men usually cheat because they feel the need to have sex with somebody else. Watching porn, though, can have the same effect. And it works on both women and men. By watching porn together, you’ll feel less tempted to do it with somebody outside of the relationship.
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It makes it easier to share your fantasies
It can so happen that you’re both really shy, therefore not that keen on trumpeting your most intimate fantasies. But what if you could watch somebody else act them out? You’ll see that it isn’t that big of a deal. You’ll feel more comfortable with each other, as well as willing to fulfil your fantasies without thinking you’re doing the devil’s work.
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You learn new tricks
Sometimes, and this is one harsh truth of life, sex can become boring. Doing the same missionary or doggy style goes all the way up to your head and makes you sick. Watching porn can give you some much-needed inspiration in this case. New positions, new ways to perform great foreplay, you name it.
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It gives you the opportunity to see that you’re better than you thought
Let’s face it: porn is awfully hilarious sometimes. Throw two clumsy actors in a room and you’ll laugh harder than you would at stand-up comedy. And if you get to say: “God, we’re so much better at this”, you can rest assured you’re in a fantastic relationship. This will also lead to more mutual respect. This is important both in the relationship as a whole and in your sex life. If there’s no respect, there’s nothing much else.
Conclusion
Whether you like to admit it or not, you’re watching porn. Even when in a relationship. Grab a bowl of popcorn and ask your hubby to watch an X-rated movie and your sex life might take a huge turn for the better.
